Thank God It's Friday (TGIF) PS 400

This week I found myself so lazy to work, I exercised more though.
I went for a show with my colleague turned friend on Wednesday and it was all the best until we could not leave the car park 2 hours after the show. It was that bad, you could not abandon your vehicle and you could not sleep because the traffic could move any time, we did this for almost 2 hours and spent another hour driving back home. We ended up getting home around 1am only for me to wake up 6pm the next day for work, obviously I woke up with a hangover and suffered headaches at intervals throughout the day.
I found myself wondering why I had to go to work but hey....it's not my father's company ehn.
Thankfully, I get to stay home today FRIDAY (whoop whoop) because I actually took the day off just to go party in another town for the weekend. Hehehe I guess the whole week is a groove week that's why I could not feel work atall, I am coming back on Monday with a bang though, I would start with an early morning and knock out all those my pending work from this week...Their father...lol!

In life you tune out sometimes, the most important thing is to come back with a bang. When you realize you are not productive take some time off work, re-energize and come back with a bang.
No one said it was OK to stay productive 365 days in a year, if that was the case why did God himself rest on the 7th day?

God bless your hustle FAM!

Martial Arts!

Have you ever thought about starting a martial arts class? Sometimes we have expertise in an art or act but seem so stuck up because there is no way forward. The best thing to do in this world is to impact lives and teach others what we know, in the process of doing these things we strive to become better in order to answer questions asked by our followers.

Benefits of martial arts classes

1. Your child is taught how to
....respect others,
....be patient
....defend him/herself
....survive in extreme or unusual situations
2. Extra classes help develop your child's social and mental skills. Being taught outside of the classroom relaxes him/her mentally.
3. Learning practical skills help everyone because in life you should be able to step outside of educative knowledge box and apply general knowledge skills to situations. For example if there is a crisis and you all need to cross a narrow bridge, your child does not learn balancing skills in the classroom but in extra moral classes you must have enrolled him or her for.
4. Just another place to mingle with people who could help you with whatever in the present or future

You do not need to rent a place to teach martial arts, a school field, a friend's compound or just an open space in the neiborhood would do.

Foluke Daramola.....“Even though I’m a woman rights activist…the man is supposed to be a step ahead of the woman”

My response to Foluke Daramola's statement!

God will help us, I feel this is not a Nigerian thing even in the western world some women feel they are beneath men. Just yesterday someone told me about a friend who does not have a car because she just broke up with her boyfriend, I looked at her in a confusing way I was like, 'what is the relationship between her love affair and her job?'.My friend replied, 'you know there are some women who believe they can not do things for themselves unless those things come from a man?' Haaa... ok I rest my case. It is well with you Foluke Daramola

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Csection Wahala!

I had my son through c-section even though I exercised till the last minute, I no gree dilate and my baby was big.
Anyway back to the real reason for this post... 3 major things I have been going through for the past 4 years
1. Fasting has been an issue for me since child birth, after some time I start to feel pain arnd my incision.
2. I can not do crunches easily like before (if u see my tummy u will understand lol)
3. Sleeping on my tummy is always kind of uncomfortable, after I wake up I feel so much pressure arnd my incision, the pain reduces 10 minutes after waking up.

Some minor things that are also strange are sneezing (sudden pain like d place will tear apart), I like thongs a lot but I find I usually settle for full panties when I go lingerie shopping.

Thank God It's Friday (TGIF) PS 300

This week did not exactly turn out as planned. As part of my always renewing regimen I am supposed to wake up every morning by 5am, tell me who would want to wake up that early when they can only go to bed at 1am?
I had decided it was best to exercise very early in the morning and get it over with, start work early too and chose to get off anytime or put in more hours. All these things have been stuck in my head for a while and I have been kind of helpless.
This week a lot of people complained around me and all I could do was just to listen to them, thank God for my own situation and figure out what I can do to make the world a better place. On Monday a colleague complained about having to drop her child at school, pack up lunch, blankets and what have you. I thought to myself, 'shouldn't that be a way for you to get motivated to own your own business or become a boss instead of complaining?' Talk of how much we like to talk and how little we love to think.
 I read a post 2 days ago about the difference between a job and a career and it got me thinking about a looooot of things in my life. I think it's time to shut down those side things I have going on and face a least two of the best things that I love to do.
Life is a struggle, survival is really for the fittest. I can chose to be relaxed and in a comfortable zone and stay poor or chose to get working, sweaty and what have you, get rich and find a comfortable zone. There is a lot that can be achieved in an hour, waking up early might not sound fun, but making money does sound like fun, why not motivate yourself that way. Think about the fact that you are losing money as you are sleeping or procrastinating.
Get up and grind, get up and work, get up and run, get up and just get up!
Seriously I need to go to the theater and watch a bad ass movie and I can't wait for my mini weekendation....

God bless you hustle....

RIP Prince!

To Each Man His Own!

Just like in traffic, when you get to a stop light everyone is waiting for the light to turn green, no one cares about what's going on in another vehicle parked nearby, sometimes they might glance over smile, nod to acknowledge you if they are respectful enough, other times they even try to get ahead of you.
If you think anyone will stop what they are doing to sort you out in life, it will never happen.
The only person who stops all else to sort you out is God and your mother some times.
I find myself wondering why we have family, friends and well wishers, I find myself wondering why we throw parties. If I am sick or down, who notices my absence until a week or two later, why would I want these people who hardly missed me celebrate with me?
We all have a right to our actions though, this is just my thought.
Do not look at me funny when I say I want to take a drastic step on something.
Do not look at me funny when I put on a little weight or lost a little weight, guess what, it's none of your business.
I also do not expect you to tell me what to do with my life, if you support me fine, if not fine.
Life is funny, life is good, life is complicated, it is life.. ...